The man I want

I want:

• to love passionately, and be loved passionately in return
• to be loved by a man
• to trust and be trusted implicitly
• someone that is for me only, never to be shared with other lovers
• to feel complete
• to be respected, honored
• to be desired and devoured
• to be cherished
• to be encouraged, supported
• someone willing to communicate

He will look like:

• 6'0" or taller, ~ 200-230lbs
• dark blonde to mid-brown hair, light eyes, full lips, big smile
• broad shoulders, nice curvy bum, (a good V from shoulders to waist) bigger nose
• thick chest, long legs, big, slightly rough hands
• open affection: lots of warm loving touches, lots of cuddles
• patience, teasing, humor, witty repartee
• passion for life
• chemistry: both in the ability to laugh and have fun, and sexually
• some shared interests in food, wine, camping, entertaining family & friends 

AND MORE!

• Strong but not a bully
• someone just for me, not to share with other lovers
• emotionally available and willing to commit 
• expresses his love through both words and actions
• is encouraging, supportive, respectful & trustworthy
• is faithful, honest, caring, kind and understanding
• romantic, passionate, playful, makes me feel desired
• experienced sexually, willing to be a little adventurous
• values family
• willingness to communicate
• active, easygoing, witty
• absolute desire to be together (ie feeling like he's won the lottery by having me in his life)
• can't wait to start a life together
• moderate drinker (maybe a beer or two weekly, not a couple of times a week) 
• education not required, but intelligent is a definite bonus
• job & vehicle are required
• divorced, and/or kids are OK, but MUST want more family (a baby for me)
• prioritizes relationship, family, career in that order

Shared interests (not necessary, but nice)

• enjoys going out to events around the city
• likes camping, skiing/boarding, traveling, 
• food & wine - or at least willing to try
• enjoys entertainging friends and family for common events (sports, holidays, etc.) 
• Maybe wants to learn how to dance
• Maybe wants to start running

Deal-breakers:

• doing drugs, selling drugs
• violence
• smoking
• lying
• cheating

I WILL BE:

• openly loving and lovable
• openly affectionate
• smart, funny, sexy
• emotionally available and willing to commit 
• express my love through both words and actions
• encouraging, supportive, respectful & trustworthy
• faithful, honest, caring, kind and understanding
  
• romantic, passionate, playful, makes him feel desired
• willing to communicate
• someone who is not afraid to walk away if I don't like what I am seeing
• someone who does NOT operate inside of her acts of  I am alone, I am unlovable, I am stupid, I am lazy
• someone who will say I do not believe what I am hearing and I do not trust your answers
• someone who is strong, and affirmative, but not bitchy
• someone who is clear about being #1 to and with her man
• someone who does not keep score??